Friday, 11 January 2013

Sombre reflection

As our local community recovers slowly from the shock of a double homicide/suicide of good friends (there is no nice way to say it), we have all had cause to reflect on the fleeting nature of our journey on this earth and how it can be snatched from us in the blink of an eye. For the departed, their souls are now free from their earthly bounds, and they reside in a place where there is only love and light.

For those left behind, there will be unanswered questions and perhaps feelings of guilt for some things that were left unsaid or undone. Although none of us are ultimately responsible for another's choices, it serves to remind us that every day should be lived as if it were our last. There should be nothing done that would cause regret if it could not be righted, and although it doesn't come easily to some of us, we should give kindness at every opportunity and share a smile and a laugh as often as possible, even with a stranger, for who knows what their journey is. If someone asks for help, give it in whatever way is possible for you; the size of your gift is not the way to heaven. Just taking the time to hear what they want to say could be the most valuable gift they receive. Be kind to yourself and ask for help when you know you need it. We are all one, and we don't need to travel this road alone.

Rest in peace, Antonet and Martin.

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